Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Do we all measure up?

A graph on the world's cock sizes - from another blog - got me thinking about how much size really matters?  Are men suppose to believe that the bigger the cock the better the man...in bed?  What of the super large cocks that can't maintain an erection, how does that help?  A large flat, flaccid prick dangling over your mouth... not quite the sexcapade you had imagined.  However, just because its rock hard doesn't mean that blowing a thick thumb is any better.  When did we all become Goldilocks?  


Talking to a pair of bottoms I needed to get a different perspective.  Wynand is a man for the small, he claims it's due to being so tight and a smaller prick poses far less of a pain poke.  Brandon on the other hand will be an advocate for the larger guys in life.  He cannot seem to relax when a tiny tot is darting in and out therefore he finds a mammoth member far easier to take the time to enjoy the pleasure.  How much space do we as men have, to fill?  Is it different for each guy?


Getting the other side of the fence I made a lunch date with two of my notorious 'twinkaniser' friends.  Every night it's something fresh, new and tight.  Steven and Greg love to chase and love to top, so I wondered do they have any real preference to the size of a cock if they are really just interested in an ass?  Steven admitted to being a bit of a flip flopper if the guy has a beautiful penis.  Huge and tiny is irrelevant if it is beautiful.  However Greg is a firm top and will not bend for no cock.  Surprisingly he admitted he prefers guys with a humungous hammer head of a... well, head.  The feel of a larger dick in his hand is far more pleasing than playing with a dick with his fingers.


So after all this cock and head talk I decided I need a bath.  As I lay soaking in the tub my imagination ran wild... at the end of it, I thought, if I were Goldilocks in a house owned by three bears, I would be having a piece of each of those bears in each of their beds, too large, too small and just right.  No man should be judged on the size of their member however treat your member the way you think it is and I bet you other men will treat it the same way.





4 comments:

Adventures In Gay Dating said...

For me, it's the total "package" of a man that's a turn-on, not just his cock. I've got friends that we bend over backward (hehehe)for any huge cock even if the man is ugly as sin. For them it's all about SIZE. Don't get me wrong, if the guy had one of those micro penises (size of pencil eraser when erect), I'd probably be kind of puzzled about what we'd actually be able to do in bed since I'm a bottom.

Single Guy said...

From my memories of Cape Town, I think South Africans are doing well in this area! Mr Big! Hope to be there in October!

Underground Dude said...

As cliche as it is, I think if the dude knows how to work it that's all that matters. I've been with dudes that didn't seem to know how to "maneuver" when it comes to topping, and no matter how slow or easing they tried, it was just painful. Been with other dudes bigger, but there was just the one moment of pain, then all was well.

As far as topping goes, size isn't really much of an issue, but agreed it's nice to have something substantial to wrap my fist around while the deed is done...

I completely came off as a big whore with this comment...

Mr Lovelace said...

What I would like to know, is how big is big??? Also, do you judge a person on a flaccid or fully erect penis???

So many questions...

Honestly, I've only ever had sex once... so I don't really much to say with regards to what size I prefer... What I do know is that for some, sex is rare and very cherished so and for those people, size doesn't matter... it's the act that matters... I think that's the bigger picture... Enjoy it while you can regardless of size... If the penis is too small for you, find some other way to stimulate yourself...

How would you feel if you had a small penis and no one wanted to have sex with you because of it? I believe that's very rude and a extremely selfish act...

What I have noticed, is that people often say they like bigger penis' but don't admit how big they are...

I'm not ashamed of my size, I'm approximately 20cm... Not sure about width though, but its roughly a little bit wider than the cardboard part a toilet roll... whether that is big or small I don't know... and it doesn't bother me... that's what I have and nothing can change that.

Mr Lovelace out...

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